Sourav tagged me on Facebook and requested me to vote for his emosanal attyachaar post. I voted (my default mode is nice) before I read it. Gotta work on my default mode. He has this pic up saying “Love Sucks”. Really? Soch Lo!!! Unless you’re having oral sex, love does not suck. It shakes you up, goes through your bank balance like a tornado and sky rockets your cellphone bills but love does not suck at all. I promised him a rebuttal. He is sweet and said “Yeah, why not?” Sourav, sweetheart here is my rebutt.
A. I have bad taste in men. I think this comes from the simple fact that I can not respect a guy who I can walk over. And I am fiesty, spunky and generally have a mind of my own. This mind of mine leads me into more trouble than any external circumstances could. In fact my mind has got me into more trouble than my 38Ds and my charming looks.
Consider this …. I get into college and I get ragged. The guys wanted me to tell them how I knew that my Dad was my Dad. One single me and about twenty seniors (mostly boys) surrounding me. I was into my blush deeply and peer through my eyelashes act. I was reveling the male attention and a good boy came and championed me. He shooed away the guys. Heck I did not need rescuing. I have always been able to take care of myself. What a downer.
Conclusion – girls are self sufficient, and “nice guys” can just somehow kill their party, so don’t help unless asked to.
B. Me and ex decided to split up. I mean it was quite fair. He kept his parental abode and I kept the kids. I agreed to not ask him for money provided he got him and his family out of my life. All this happened in saner moments when we were not screaming, calling each other names and breaking all the crystal and china in our home. Yeah, we are mature people like that. So ex moved to foreign land and I moved into another colony. Ex’s friends (many of them) decided that they could console me and have me cry on their shoulder and seek solace in their beds. And you know, each one of these smart men thought they were being discrete and their intentions were sooo honorable! Talk about libido taking over your common sense.
Conclusion – girls are intelligent and “dumb guys” just need to think beyond their dicks to realize that women have brains too
C. Nice is wishy washy, it can not disguise the fact that men are stronger than women and have advantages – their strength and (what pinches more) tradition. When they try to do the nice guy act ….. Its like making a bear wear a bugs bunny dress. The bear is still there and looks silly chomping carrots. Women deeply distrust the bear, but find the bugs bunny dress cute. But at the end of the day its all drama.
Women want a man who is strong, but he should work his muscles in the gym/ shifting furniture/opening the hard to open jars. Women do not want him to do a Rahul Mahajan on their bodies.
If by “nice guy” you mean the kind that grovels at a woman’s feet ~ dude how low would you want to stoop for a fuck? And if by nice guy you mean the sort that let’s a girl walk over him ~ you simply won’t score. A girl isnt gonna sleep with you if you let her walk over you. C’mon be a man, be yourself, be the one who a smart, savvy and liberated woman would love to be seen out with. No one owns any one in this day and age. We partner the person we care for.
Conclusion – girls and guys are yin and yan. No one needs to play games or sign ownership papers
P.S. : I stand by all that I have written – but it is my opinion. If there are folk who don’t agree with this …. folk you simply have bad taste.