There is a certain group of people who think I am arrogant.
So far so good. I don’t care a rats arse what any other person’s opinion of me is. I ain’t here to make friends and influence people. I am here to live my life the best I can, still being myself. Yes, the so called “arrogant” myself.
It started bothering me when people close to me got brainwashed into concurring with this person(s)
Or did they agree with this person(s)?
Now that was an uncomfortable thought.
So I started researching the term arrogant ….
Dictonary.com says that arrogance is
offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride. It gives synonyms like haughtiness, insolence, disdain.
That does not fit too well.
Urban dictionary says :
When a person is led to believe that they are in some way more superior to everybody else. Pride is fine up until a point, but as soon as you believe that you are in some special way better than everybody else, you become a dickhead.
Someone who is full of and thinks very highly of him/herself.
Oye hello! This is why I blog! Because I am so full of myself!
But I beg to differ.
I am sorry, people close to me, I do not have arrogance, I have pride. This pride comes out of living my life and recognizing my own worth. I have pride that I have borne the brunt of responsibilities that could have crippled lesser people. I have the pride of a person who has been earning her own keep and supporting others since the age of 18.
I also know one important thing, something I have learnt in life. People try to undermine other peoples’ self esteem by calling them loser, wuss, and even arrogant, so that the person can be brought down a few notches – so much easier to use, abuse, manipulate and humiliate.
I am not arrogant; I am just an insolent person who knows her own self worth and does not want to be used or manipulated. This is a woman, too full of herself and will not change. Burn if you must, but that is me. This “ME” was born out of 50 years of walking this earth. I ain’t gonna change it to suit your purpose. I wont be manipulated!
People criticize because they lack self esteem themselves. They need to take cheap shots at others, because they themselves feel insecure.
So, people close to me, please grow more responsible and better human beings yourself. Stop being a burden on others, live life on your own terms. Be free! If you do that, you will not feel the need to take cheap shots at others.
Arrogant, as per Urban dictionary, also means
A person who’s insecurity is disguised as confidence. Mostly in cases of taunting.
I think it fits your profile.
So “Arrogant” who?????